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Flirting is an essential aspect of human interaction.
By hoboken12January 9, in Dating Advice.
I need a little advice. I am 28m and the girl I am dating is We have been seeing eachother for about 2 months. When I met her we found out that we know some of the same people. One of these people is a girl that I work with, Katie. I have always found Katie attractive but kind of thought that there wasn't anything possible between us.
The problem I am having is I am finding myself more attracted to Katie than my girlfriend. I think Katie might be feeling the same way. Here is the question, Katie and my girlfriend are not good friends they just share mutual acquantenses. Is there a good way to find out more about Katie without anyone getting hurt?
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I am not trying to be two timing or anything like that. I guess I am just curious if a relationship with Katie is possible and if she doesn't think it is what is the point of hurting who I am with currently. I kind of feel guilty for thinking about this, but I am getting these feelings about Kate that I don't think I can ignore anymore, we have a great time talking with eachother, and people have even pointed out before that we should date eachother. If you are more interested in another girl than your current partner - why are you still with your partner?
I guess maybe you're right I just don't really want to admit it.
The thing is my girlfriend is great, we have a lot in common, she's smart, loyal, giving, funny, everything I could want It doesn't seem like there is the sparks needed for a good relationship. I've really taken my time on this relationship and tried not to rush things too fast. Part of me thinks that if there isn't much of a spark right now, there isn't going to be one further down the road. The other part of me thinks it would be stupid to give up this early because sparks can develop as I get to know her better.
I wouldn't want to be her. Here's a question for you Would that bother you at all? Now, as of now, you haven't done anything disloyal or disrespectful to your current gf, from the information given, and I would keep it that way. You can let her down easy, and just simply say she's a great girl, but the spark isn't there See how much you miss her or think about her. I think after the week or two is up, you'll know your answer. Hope everything works out, but PLEASE don't even begin to persue this new girl until you have things streightened out with your gf now.
If you do try to "find things out" about this Katie girl, you could wind up losing a chance with both girls if it gets messy, which it probably would. Just be smart, and use good judgment. Good luck! You sure about this attract you feel for Katie and it isnt something that will die after a month or so?
Are you sure its just not infatuation? Think careful before you chose the road to take.
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I would try to spend some time having little communication with both, your gf and Katie and see which way the wind blows. Try not to dig your head in either of them. Keep in mind though your gf is pretty rare and would it be worth loosing all that you have with her, cuz of an erection in a different direction using that word harshly. You said: "The thing is my girlfriend is great, we have a lot in common, she's smart, loyal, giving, funny, everything I could want You can post now and register later.
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Share More sharing options Followers 0. Reply to this topic Start new topic. Recommended Posts. Posted January 9, Any suggestions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options Ms Omaniac Posted January 9, I really don't mean to be selfish, and I don't want to hurt anyone. Lady Bugg Posted January 9, I agree with Ms O Hey Hoboken12 You sure about this attract you feel for Katie and it isnt something that will die after a month or so?
Posted January 10, Im not a love type person, have my reasons Keep in mind though your gf is pretty rare and would it be worth loosing all that you have with her, cuz of an erection in a different direction using that word harshly You said: "The thing is my girlfriend is great, we have a lot in common, she's smart, loyal, giving, funny, everything I could want the conversation You can post now and register later.
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