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In other words, sex after 40 is different for every couple.
And, as couples age and grow together, their sexual needs change and deepen. Sex after 40, basically, is a whole new ball game — and it should be liberating because of that.
How often do couples in their 40s make love, anyway? Some women who could only handle quickies start to want moreand others who wanted luxuriating hours in bed need to get it done. So, according to women in their 40s, how long should sex last? Well, it depends.
Details such as frequency and length feel less important. Instead, I really value how that time is spent. I used to have a difficult time with sex that took a while, preferring quickies consistently and feeling pretty impatient when a partner wanted it to linger on.
Now I cherish the variety of short sessions and occasional lengthy ones. When it comes to sex, s really are just s. After about 25 minutes, I tend to get bored and start to think about my to-do list.
There is no prescribed length of time. For some women five minutes may be good and then for others, 45 minutes.
Even the same woman, with the same partner, will want varying amounts of time — depending on where they are at that precise moment. Sometimes a quickie can not be beat and other times I may need a good 40 minutes of foreplay just to get started. My man could make me come on the couch while watching TV in five minutes.
Good sex means you are either being pleasured or you are enjoying being the giver the entire time. My man or myself could get off in three minutes or an hour, and both would be considered good sex. Length of time has little to do with good sex.
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By Lizzy Francis.